It depends on the sort of connection you want to make. We cant read your mind. If you were to define this connection, maybe somebody could help.
conciliatory
You find things that you can relate to with the character.
You can't actually get a better connection on Frostwire, it justs depends on your internet. The longer you run Frostwire, though, the better the connection.
It's normal for each neuron to have one thousand (1000) connections.