"Witty"
Yes. All jokes about people is backstabbing. Even if they say its a joke. They are not your friends if they joke about you.
The word "joke" is used for people trying to make fun of another somebody. It is classified as slang. It may seem as it is a put down, but its really not
No! Um..... lemme think..... oh! You have absolutely no fashion. To tell you that you have good taste you'd have to wear candy!
A feather bedder
Lame.