What do you say to your friends who leave you out of their group hangouts?

Answer 1

These are not your true friends. If you are young, you will probably not even know these people as you go to college or marry and raise a family. What other interests do you have? Find friends that want you to be around and that you share the same interests. You are waisting your time with these "friends" now.

There can actually be points when the friends feel as if you have changed or you have done something to upset them, at this stage they may not mean to make you feel left out. at points even the best of friends can find each other annoying, because nobody is perfect. sometimes its a matter of being patient and actually talking to your friends about why they feel the need to make you feel left out. this is easy said hard done but it may save you from allot of hurt and frustration. If even then you feel that your friends or friend is treating you unfairly then don't feel the need to put up with them, because a true friend wouldn't do anything to hurt you. In fact a true Friend wouldn't watch anyone else do anything to hurt you they would stick up for you even if you aren't there and someone is making comments about you.

But also remember that maybe it's just that they don't know you feel this way. Maybe they want to include you but they don't think you are interested. Don't dump your friends right away. Try talking to them first. Be reasonable and rational. Everything will be okay in the end. Hakuna Mattata. it means no worries.

I agree with ^ Above.

Dont be friends with then ASAP especially if you cant stand being left out. They are probably doing this on purpose because they cant ever forget about a friend unless they're not a true one. I have a friend who grew up with me in the elementary school and middle school as me. She stopped being my best friend when she met a girl who ended up in the same class as me who I met 3 years ago. Instead, she decided to leave me alone and become her best friend. That time I wanted to throw her in the toilet! (My "Best friend") Well she isn't anymore and Im glad Im not the best friend of a backstabber anymore. But later on, when we made more friends, I wasnt feeling that left out anymore. They created a Best friends group and I was happy to be part of it. But then they had a fight with each other and made it new group. I hadnt done anything yet, they didnt invite me to the group. I am feeling the same pain right now as I did starting Middle school. Pick out your real friends. Friends that will never leave you alone, friends that are never jealous and hurt other people. There are plenty of other people out there, so don't stick with the same STUPID friends that leave you alone because they don't know it about themselves but they are truly SELFISH, their attitude is getting UGLY and no one likes it. Tell them you don't care anymore and you cant stand being left out. And to make yourself feel better you can just walk off and laugh it off. =] Good Luck. { Ps. Many people are being in the same situation :) Including me. Just laugh it off and remember your other friends }

Answer 2

No, you don't get new friends, you work it out with the friends you already have.

If that doesn't work you can:

* get new friends

* try to explain to them how you are feeling

* try to get along by forming a group get together with all of your friends

*get them to start hanging out with you again

*try not to get mad every time they go somewhere together (everybody needs space)

*have them talk to someone to work it out

If you have tried these things and none of them worked that friend of yours is not a real friend and we all need real friends!

Answer 3

Sure, although you will probably be ignored/laughed at because of it.

If they really are leaving you out on purpose...It's probably because of a reason, ask them why. Although this is probably not the case, it's worth a try. Otherwise just try and get involved in the group.

Answer 4

Hello,

If you are having troubles with your friends call them sort it out! Learn to love each other again! Or option 2 text them your invited toa massive....... opps wrong person.

good luck chicks,

nezzels

Answer 5

you say okay and go and find new friends to hang with

if that don`t work then you could always ask them why there leaving you out and if its a good reason then you have to find a way to make them get you into their group or if its not a good reason then you find new friends

:D

hope everything works out with you and your mates

Answer 6

My best Friend that I known since the begging of the school year, is leaving me out for another girl, they sit next to each other in every class they always talk, and today during math class in first period my best friend sat next to her she said she would sit next to me 2nd period because we had 2 periods of math and she never did. I litterly was about to cry I even asked my teacher if I can go to the bathroom. she sits next to her during every class, and I only sit next to her during math but she had to just sit with her, I just feel left out I known her since forever and now she hangs out with this girl. I known her forever I helped her through all tough times, and she leaves me out. I do not know what to do please help.

Answer 7

ask them what you did wrong and if they don't answer try to figure it out your self

Answer 8

Say hey guys can I like still hang out with you .I don't want to start anything or something like that

just quietly inch away dont kiss their a** and ask to atill hang out with them

Answer 9

you are out of her leage at the moment