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What do you do if the guy you are seeing only likes to have sex with you and never takes you out?In: Relationships |
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Out where? Maybe he just doesn't have the cash, or he considers you equals so he doesn't do "gentleman stuff". Still, if you want more, you have to say so. And if you NEED more to be happy and he won't or can't provide, you have to leave.
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From a guy: If you give away free milk, they'll never buy the cow.
Get a new guy and if you show respect for yourself and your body - we'll respect you, too. You marry a girl who says "no" for a long time, you fool around with a girl who says "yes" too early...
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I suggest, as a last resort to give the guy a chance, the "silent treatment". This doesn't mean you have to act like you hate him, just always let HIM initiate everything. Dont visit him, let him visit you. Don't call him, let him call you. Don't talk to him too much, let him approach you...This will make HIM make the effort in the relationship, which is a giveaway that he truly cares for you. Otherwise, if he walks out because u didnt sleep with him, you'll KNOW he only wanted sex. 100% foolproof - works for me.
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I'm sorry to say that he is immature, cheap, and using you for convenient sex.
He'll lay on the charm when he's really wanting sex. He'll be so charming and sweet. However, his talk is cheap. Actions speak far louder than words.
Your best bet is to COLD TURKEY, cut off phone calls, emails, visits, etc...it will be VERY hard for you if you are emotionally into him when he wasn't for you. Have no further communication with him one way or the other. Just let him know that you are tired of the lack of respect and that it is not going to continue.
You will need to be strong, VERY strong. If you don't, you'll only get hurt more as time goes on. He does not respect you.
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Unfortunately females are more sentimental than guys. So we tend to use what we feel will get a response from a guy and sorry to say the response is not always what we hoped for. A real man would not have to "use" you for sex only. This person sounds like he still has some growing up to do! Let him go and grow up!ctr
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If you are satisfied with that arrangement then don't change a thing. If you want to be treated with more respect, leave him and find somebody else.
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Dump him. He's just using you. You can do way better than that. I'm rooting for you!
First answer by ashley. Last edit by Vume5. Contributor trust: 48 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 89 [recommend question]
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