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What do you do if you are going out with someone but fancy your best friends boyfriend who is your boyfriend's best mate?
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∙ 12y ago
Sounds like interpersonal poison! If you make a move on this guy, you will be betraying your current boyfriend and poisoning his relationship with his best mate. It is pretty normal to be attracted to multiple people. If you are of good character, you will control your actions with respect to this guy.
Don't make any moves on him - not even to tell him you fancy him - while you are still involved with your current boyfriend and/or this other guy is still involved with your friend. If you are no longer interested in your current boyfriend, then break it off with him. If you lost interest because you are now interested in his best mate, then you are definitely being fickle - not a good character trait. You also run a serious risk of hurting him deeply if you tell him you are dumping him for his best mate. At the same time, you will likely hurt the other boy because it will damage his relationship with his friend (your current boyfriend). If he is a decent fellow, that alone would be a good reason for him to reject you - which would leave you without any boyfriend at all. Granted, being without a boyfriend is hardly the major crisis most teenagers make it out to be, but I assume it's not the outcome you are looking for. Added to all that is the likelihood that you would destroy your friendship with your friend who is currently with this other guy you fancy.
All in all, making any kind of move on this other guy is a bad idea that will only lead to grief all around and lose your your friends. Be mature and just let it be for now. If, in the future, all parties have broken up, you might then attempt to woo said boy, but not until then. In reality, you probably would want to give it some time after all break ups to give it some distance in time. If both couples were to break up today, you would probably still want to wait at least a month, preferably 2 or 3 at least, to make any moves. Even then, the green eyed monster of jealousy may still rear his ugly head.
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What do you do if you fancy your best friends boyfriend?
your friends boyfriend will breakup with your friend, and your friend will get mad at you.
How does a boy make a girl jealous?
I don't know why you would want to make a girl jealous ( I am a girl) but I'll help.Girls can only really be made jealous of other girls, boyfriends, ex boyfriends or the person they fancy. if you are not any of these people you have no hope.If you are her boyfriend: flirt a little with other girls (not too much)and hang around with your friends a little more.If you are her ex: get a new girlfriend, have a really good time with her and boast about it a lot so that everyone knows.If they fancy you: Flirt with other girls and their friends. Its really hard to get these people jealous!
How do you ask a guy out who is best friends with your ex-boyfriend who cheated on you?
Easy.... Just say do you fancy hooking up!!!!!!
She said were just friends but she used to fancy me but she has a boyfriend now how can i get her when the break up?
Simply be there for her when her relationship starts to crumble.
What makes you fancy a boyfriend?
i want some one to fancy me because i fancy them
People say I am good looking and that i have a great personality. I always get stuck in the friend zone. What to i do?
If you are friends with someone who you fancy and they don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend then ask them out. I think you should just wait it out. The right person will come to you with time.
What he means when he says how many boyfriends do you have?
means how many people ya fancy or been out with
What should you do if a girl you fancy also fancies you but she is a couple years younger and has a boyfriend?
Boyfriends are not husbands so she's still free for you to ask out. The right thing to do of course, if you both care about each other is for her to be honest with the boyfriend she has. It's time you and this girl had a good talk and decided what you want to do about this. Good luck Marcy
How do you know if a boy you fancy is going out with someone?
when they are not hitting on every girl they see and not including sexual humor when they talk to their friends.
How do you let a boy know you fancy him?
Try to get him to catch you looking at him a few times, don't do this often though or you'll appear creepy in his eyes Make friends with him first then slowly let your friends relationship grow and soon you'll be boyfriends and girlfriend tell your friend to tell him
Can gay men fancy lesbians?
yes, they can fancy them as friends, and frequently the do.
What do you do if your best friend fancy you but you fancy someone else?
I hate that situation. I currently, am in it. But I ended up telling him it'd be "healthier if we just stay friends" He/She is your best friend. Yu can tell them anything.
