What do you do if you caught your wife lieing about emailing an exboyfriend?

Answer:
  • I'd want to know why she would feel a need to hide something so meaningless.

  • Don't jump to conclusions. She may have received an email from him (if he lives in another town or city) and he touched base with her (not a good idea and poor manners on his part.) She probably didn't tell you because she knew you would probably be jealous. It would be to your best interest to communicate with her and hear her side of the story. If her ex boyfriend lives in the same town then put your foot down! Tell her it's not right and if she doubts it then she should put herself in your shoes for a few minutes. If she wants to just visit her ex boyfriend (if he's from out of town) then tell her to ask him over to dinner (with you there!) and if she doesn't like that idea then tell her you have no recourse, but to think she is hiding her feelings about him. Morally, ex boyfriends and ex girlfriends should remain just that .. EX! It's time to move on.
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