What should you do if you love him but don't want to be with him?

Answer 1

I take it you don't find him physically attractive, but are in love with his personality. What else could it be?

You are either in love or you're not. There is no fence-sitting on this subject. Then again, he could be abusing you and you love him, but don't fancy him. You didn't really go into detail. Either way, it's not love if you don't fancy him. No in between here.

Good luckMarcy

AnswerI mean I don't find him physically attractive at all but he is a good man and a wonderful father to our children. So what does one do in this type of situation.....I don't want to break up the family just because we don't have an intimate relationship...surely that isn't everything? Any thoughts most welcome.....

Answer 2

You talk and could decide not to have sex any more, but do not be surprised if your relation will deteriorate. If you want to save your relation, you have to fix your sexual problems as long as your partner still has the need.

Answer 3

well maybe if yall are friends that's okay but i wouldn't go out with a guy i dont love. Not every boy you go out with your gonna LOVE but maybe you think there cute and sweet and funny etc......

at some point they or you are gonna dump them or you. Like my last bf i had feelings for him but I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with him

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Answer 4

Talk to him & leave if you can't work it out. You need to talk to him as soon as possible because it's not fair that he's being lead on & wasting his time with somebody who doesn't love him anymore. Like I said, you can sit down with him & have a talk about how & why you don't love him anymore, or you could even try some form of counseling.

Answer 5

Try to do more activities with him. Go on a cruise, out for dinner, you name it. If that doesn't work, think about what you hate about being married. Maybe you should have a girl's night. If you don't think you love him anymore after all this, go on vacation by yourself for a week or so. If you find yourself lonely and missing his company, you need him in your life.

Answer 6

Tell him, i love you and always will but i think we should see other people for a little while.

Answer 7

you go different ways...or maby you stay together and on the same time time makes out with another one:P I would choose the first on :) you got to tell hin girl :O :P