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I don't trust people.. the only reason why I don't have a best friend is because the people whom I considered as my best friends in the past don't even care for me.. they act like strangers.. now the meaning of friends or best friends to me is.. people who come and go.. and people who you can past time with .. I have been used by many people just so they can pass their time..I LOVED my friends.. I would do anything just to make them smile..they meant so much to me.. but I guess I was nothing to them more than a -pass-timer. now the only things that's my best friend right now is God, me, myself, and I... I talk to myself most of the times..because I have no one to talk to.I Loved my cousins more than anything.. but what did they give me? nothing but rummors and craps behind my back. they made fun my my opinions.. whenever I give out an opinion nobody just listens.. !.I can never show or tell anyone that I love them ... nobody really trust me which includes my 18 year old sister too... she never tells me anything and is really bossy.. all she does is yell at me over little mistakes.. . my little brother get everything he wants .. my older brother gets whatever he wants .... except for me.. why is it always me.? why am I suffering from Anxiety at this young age?.. because of how people have treated me?. .I cry every night, I am Anorexic..! I am in tears right now.. just looking over everything.... all I wish is that i had a real honest best friend .. who I can tell my secrets to.......... that's all i wish for.....
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15y ago

Take up new hobbies, or think of ways of meeting new people. When you do be as friendly and natural as you can and the rest should come naturally.

In the mean time try to think positive, the situation probably isn't your fault, things have a way of working themselves out in the end. Maybe spend more time with your family to keep relationships strong and yourself busy.

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13y ago

I know how you feel, sometimes i worry about not having enough friends but at the end of the day, dont depress yourself about this. You will find a friend or even best friend that will equal up to having 100 friends that you will love so much.

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11y ago

I doubt that you actually cannot physically have friends, you probably just want to make friends. Well, easier than you think. People assume that others don't want to spend time with people they are unfamiliar with, but that is entirely untrue. How do I know? Personal experience.

The first thing you want to do is be friendly. You probably go to school, or work, or some kind of environment during which you interact with other people. Being friendly, smiling, saying hello or goodbye, and using manners will attract other people into talking to you.

Also, talk about thing in common. This can be anything to criticizing a well-known teacher to talking about how much sugar you put in your coffee, anything you have in common. You will find that more often than not, people will be drawn into the conversation!

Lastly, join community activities. Trust me, joining community activities will help you get to know more people which, in turn, will lead to more people recognizing you and being comfortable with you. Again, this could be a school club, environmental organization, or even sports.

Making friends really isn't as hard as people make it out to be. Just make a few, and they will introduce you to more and more and more....

And remember, be confident. You are unique and amazing, and your time is worth a lot. Don't let others put you down, remind yourself that by not being friends with you, it's their loss. Good luck!

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12y ago

Well... Find somebody you would be interested in talking to. Then try and find things in common. Try to get their attention. I don't know you but I don't know why you wouldn't have any friends! Try to talk to people and you'll fit in! :-)

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11y ago

If you don't have any friends you can read a book while others are talking or you could play a game on your phone or I pod. Most people will try finding friends though, people who could relate to you. You could find people who have the same interests or people of the same ethnicity. Or meet someone from your Church, Mosque, Synagogue, or temple. ^^

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12y ago

I'd recommend that you try and find someone else in your class that seems to not have any friends either, then talk to them and you might become good friends.

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12y ago

Nothing in particular, there are a lot of people that dont have friends. the thing to do, if you are lonely, is to involve yourself in something that involves other people.

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