By "parties" I assume you mean drinks alcohol excessively or does drugs. If you're worried that your boyfriend may have an addiction and if you feel like it's damaging the relationship, I would suggest getting involved with your local Al Anon or Narc Anon chapter where you will learn, through the twelve steps program, how to deal with your boyfriend and your own feelings. There are also intervention programs that may help him. I would start by calling your local crisis helpline (or 2-1-1 if you have it in your area) or by looking in the phone book under alcoholism or drug abuse.
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