What do you do in a long-distance relationship if all your boyfriend's friends are female?

Answer 1

I know exactly what you mean, and yeah it can be frustrating. I think you just have to trust him and understand that he loves you, and talk to him about the things that are bothering you. You definitely shouldn't ask him to stop seeing those friends, but instead try to deal with it yourself. Sorry you are going through this and I am going to just give it to you from the hip. The only men I know that love to be surrounded by women (and are not fooling around with them) are gay men and I have several gay friends. They are more comfortable with women and fear men will realize they are gay and do a little gay-bashing. If you are sure your boyfriend is not gay then he is using you. It's OK to have a female friend, but when you have so many something is going on here and you aren't included. Time to have a nice chat with this boyfriend of yours. When you are dating and going together it isn't really any different than being married. You have committed to each other and you have to start a good relationship by being open and honest. He is not! I completely disagree with the last poster. I am in a long-distance relationship and most of my friends are male, but I am not a lesbian or using my boyfriend by any extent of the imagination. It's ridiculous to assume such things. Most likely, he just gets along with women probably for the same reasons he gets along with you. Definitely nothing to worry about. If you are really worried, mention it to him, but if you really trust him (which you probably do if you are sacrificing things to be in a long-distance relationship) then you shouldn't be so jealous. I agree with the second post. i had a long distance boyfriend and was very upset when it came to his female friends. He was irritated by it and said i didn't have to be so possessive and i should trust him more. So i did. 4 months before we were supposed to walk down the aisle together he broke up with me saying that he wanted to explore possibilities with his best friend! Now its only 7 months since the break up and they are going to get married tomorrow!!