Abuse is a deal breaker in a relationship. Especially if there are children. Physical abuse often follows verbal abuse, and in any case, it can cause stress- related health issues over time. In addition, children often will carry the "flu" into their own lives and relationships. If she is seeking ideas for help, then take her to the local intake for rescuing abuse victims and they will provide counseling and some housing help, which she will need if she is serious about taking action. I left with kids and the local agency was very good to me. I needed a team of wise people to lead me out of the situation, since I was not feeling very strong. It is scary, but eventually, you end up in a much better life. IF the father chooses to address the question, either with counseling/behavior modification or with health issues (whichever), he could possibly get his family back. But, change is unlikely if he stays in the household. Abusers know they are that way, its just another way for them to put blame on the victims by not acknowledging it. The help for mother and child is therapy to get them to realize nothing they did made the abuser the way his is. The abuser needs help to, to get him to realize there is a better way for everyone to deal with lifes ups and downs. The mother and child need to be around healthy relationships to show them that theirs is not the norm. The abuser needs to have his targets removed so he can view himself in his pitiful state, alone. If your friend's husband was always like this then he was a true abuser. If he has been like this in the last year or two he could be suffering from a disease or the possibility of onset of Dementia. It's hardly likely his wife would ever be able to get him to a doctor for a good physical. The help has to come from this friend of yours. She has control to either stay with her abusive husband or leave. You can't force her to make this decision so I suggest you just be her friend. It is wise to stay out of it. My husband and I have friends (1 couple) and her husband is verbally abusive, but after some observation I realized it was a game between them and I bluntly told my girlfriend just that. She looked sheepish and said, "Yup, we play games!" I stay right out of it and I suggest you do too. Marcy
Keep them away from the father and make an agreement with him not to be verbally abusive to your children
No.
Call the police station and speak to an officer about it. If the step-father is threatening the children he can be removed and not the children.
No, they need to.
Kick them out and if they don't leave call the cops.
That is up to the judge to decide based on Child Protective Service's report. You have to call them and tell them what is going on in order to get help.
That wouldn't be easy. If he is really an abuser (rather than someone who just loses his temper sometimes) then this would be incredibly difficult. He is verbally abusive in order to establish control. Try talking to your son and see how he is; see what effect this is having on him.
well I don't think that you can. I think that you have to have more reason then your father yells at you. You can get emacipated at 16 in Oklahoma but you have to have a very good reason.
no
Missouri does not have emancipation of minors statues so there can be no court procedure concerning such. If there is abuse you should enlist the help of a trusted adult such as a teacher or contact the state's child protective services for assistance.
my girlfriend is a runaway and wants to live with someone that is helping her, her parents are abusive sexually verbally and physically. she should not go home, and if she is caught and goes home her father is sending her to jail til she is 18 years old.
yes