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From personal experince. I found that the best way is to be busy with one child (eg;changing a napy or helping with homework).Do this right before you want his help, wheather you want him to start dinner, feed the baby or change a nappy, make it look like there is no possible way you could do it,as you are really busy. Also word it right. " Darl, could you please start feeding the baby , I'll only be 5 more mins then I'LL take over" OR "CAn you please run a bath for the kids while I get there PJ's and them ready" The idea is to make him think he is doing you a favour, that he doesn't have to do much, and make him think that you are doing more than he has been asked to do. Also depending on the age of the children, they can ask daddy to bath him/her or help with homework. always helps to have kids on your side. hope this helps. My man does nearly every thing for my kids without being asked, cooks dinner and also works 6 days a week. I have Trained him well.... Quit loving this jerk for one! If these are his children then take him to court for Child Support.

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