What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he does not know if he loves you anymore?

When He Says "I May Not Love You"

There are two routes you could take. The first is:

Wait! Talk with him about it, several times, without emotion being involved. Maybe he wants something else than breaking up. We all question our relationships--it is part of the maturing process of the relationship. Perhaps you both need to start doing the things again that you liked doing together before he had these doubts. If there is a problem within the relationship, bring it into the open and see if you can both move to resolve it. Otherwise, yes, you should break up with him if he won't discuss it and/or indicate that he wants to continue to see you.

On the other hand, you could do this:

Believe him! Don't make excuses for why he may have said that and don't tell yourself he didn't mean it and don't think for a minute that anything you say or do will change things because it won't. I know it's difficult and we all have the tendency to think that if we just do or say the "right" things or act the "right" way that things will go back to being the way they were, but they won't. And, there is nothing attractive about a person who sits around waiting for something that has little chance of happening. Develop other interests and plan to do things that don't include him. I'm not saying you need to do all of this right away but please realize that making even a small shift in another direction will eventually take you to a different road!Good luck to you.

Input from other WikiAnswers contributors:

• If you choose the first route, if he tells you the same thing after you talk to him, tell him his time is up. If he says that he fell out of love with you and does not know if that love is not there anymore, he is just a waste of your time then.

• There's not a future with someone who doesn't feel a connection with you any longer. Hanging on to the relationship is like clinging to a sinking ship. It's in both of your best interests to end the relationship.

• Help him find his way to the exit door, and move on. The sinking ship comment was right on target.

break up with him sorry girls

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