just bacause you have sex with someone doesnt meen that they love you because it could be a dare and they could hate you... : ) Nope, Shoot I would do it with almost any girl, anywhere
I do not believe you can MAKE a man do anything he does not want to do. Its just his nature to do what he wants and when he wants. If he is forced then most men regret the relationship in the first...
When you have sex just to have sex you are not making love, technically. Making love includes some emotion, and you probably should know each other pretty good. But all things fair, you can have sex...