"Pro se" refers to the fact that the party is not represented by a lawyer--that he, she, or it is representing him/her/itself. Either a plaintiff or a defendant may be pro se, although in some types...
"PRO SE" (in some court systems knowns as "PRO PER") is legal shorthand (of a Latin phrase) meaning that the defendant is representing themselves without the benefit of counsel.
The judge will give you your turn. From what I have seen, the judges were patient and lenient and gave the pro se lots of time to tell their story, apparently to be sure they appeared to be fair to...