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That depends on the form of the abuse.
If he is sadistic - he gets gratification. If he is a control freak - control.
If he is a narcissist - he avoids intimacy and secures narcissistic supply (some narcissistic love to be feared and hated).
what it most likely looks to me is that he enjoys the control. That is his way of discipline and to know that the abusee will do nothing to stop him. It is control and satisfaction of power.
Power over another. They are under the illusion that it will solve their problems of feeling small and out of control themselves.
They get control and nothing more. They have no feeling or concern for another...unless it will effect them in some way (eg loss of financial support).
Abusers get a feeling of power and control by means of the abuse tactics they've employed. They also, usually, get their way on whatever question is going on at the moment. These things come at a price paid by those they abuse and themselves.
the victim or the abuser? emotional abuse cuts deeper than physical abuse. it has to do with manipulation. though emotional abuse and physical abuse ususally go hand in hand.
Yes, it does. In all cases, the substance abuse intervention is conducted to inform the abuser of the danger and guide the abuser out of whatever form of substance abuse he/she is using. This on a whole gives the abuser moral and medical support, increasing the odds of staying clean.
domestic abuse or violence
the abuser is called sadist & the victim is called masochist.
abuse the child mentally or physically
Yes, the noun 'abuse' is an abstract noun, a word for a concept.
The love turns to hate because the reality of what the abuser did sets in. Speaking as a victim of abuse, I don't think I could ever love my abuser again even if he said he's "changed" because of the reality of what he did to me, and the claims that he "changed" so many previous times during the abuse.
I think it affect families by the actions the abuser is or was taken ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
The word abused is the past tense of the verb to abuse. The noun forms for the verb are abuse, abuser, and the gerund, abusing.
If the child is witness to the abuse, than the abuser is sending a message to the child that it is okay to do that to people.
Often abuse is learned in the environment in which a child or children are brought up. If the father abuses the mother or, in some cases even the mother can abuse the father. Even though the environment in which the abuser grew up and learned to be abusive a person with genetics to have anger issues can also become an abuser.
To stop abusers, they should be held accountable for their actions. If someone reports the abuse to the police, the person may stop their abuse.