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What does he mean saying we can't be apart that long? |
why he "can't be apart that long"
"we can't be apart that long" means that his idea of closeness would be violated by that particular length of time. It might be good to ask him how long feels okay for him and then help him to clue into intensity by asking, okay so three days feels safe, now on a scale of 1 - 10, 1 being no problem at all and ten being absolute discomfort, where does five (or whatever number) days feel? If he's at a five or lower, then it's livable. If it's higher than that, you need more conversation. You could ask him if there are specific things you both could do that would help him to bear an absence, like regular phone calls, IM's etc.
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