What does it mean if your girlfriend says she needs time to herself for a week but you are both in love and aren't breaking up?

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Don't take this to heart. Sometimes woman need some time to thereselves, because they want to spend sometime with our family and friends for awhile. Spending too much time together can actually make people break-up because they loose a sense of themselves and feel suffocated at times. Talk to her, tell her how you feel and that if she needs you that you will be right their for her for whatever she needs... and mean it too! I am sure that your just a good guy and that things are going to work out. Just talk to her about how you feel and truthfully, if she is toying with you or is backing away then Buddy, you deserve much better for yourself!!!!

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yeah thats what she says is that she just has alot of stuff on her mind and she needs this time for herself she swears that shes madly in love, and im for her and she doesn't want to leave or break up. she said she just needs this time for her to clear her head ive told her that im here for her she knows that she still calls me everyday and still we end calls with I love you so I just dotn know whats goign on
REPLY: "For a week?" Did you consider menstruation? She may be rather uncomfortable to talk about such things, especially with a guy. (It seems to me you're both very young and you've been "together" for a rather short time.)

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Just let her work out her feelings, and when she's ready to talk, be honest and straightforward with each other.

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Ahhhahaa, she has doubts about the relationship. So she needs time to sort out how she really feels and she probably has another guy on the side but wants to keep you hanging on just in case it doesn't work out with the last fling with the other guy. So, while your away calling her and saying how much she loves you, she's having a fling with this other guy to see if they are sexually compatible. Cause is this woman really loves you, you can be in her face every minute of the day and it wouldn't matter. Fifty percent of all AMERICAN married couples end in divorce cause they don't know what intimate commitment is. Especially, the younger generations. Even worse is that people from other countries pick up this fast-food mentality and destroy the best things about thier own culture. I've been with several American women but it never lasted. I met one woman from Russia and we've been married now for 8 years. It's an entirely different scenario with American women, the majority of them will jump ship once they see something better. There is nothing sacred in America anymore. Blame it on "White" men ! All they want to do is scr* every women in site and *. Look at what's been proliferated all over the Internet, the most disgusting imagery concerning White men and women of color. Look how white american women are, they're like wh*. Tanya harding is a good example. Pamela Anderson, another example.Then you have talentless women that sell records solely on premanufactured musical marketing techniques, ala Britney Spears. All looks, but nothing is sacred to them, they make love with one guy and all it means to them is an org* ! So to get back to my point, your probably better off with a woman that understands commitment. You let her go off now, and that pattern will become the norm, until one day you find out she's been scr* another guy on those weeks' off. If a woman needs time away from you, to sort her thoughts out, then she's not the one. Sorry kiddo. You seam like a good person, but don't fool your self now for a load of hurt later. bless your heart.

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