What does it mean when your pupils dialate?

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Ahhhh Body language. One of my favorite things to study.

If someone's pupils dialate, it doesn't necisarrily mean that they like the person they are talking to, although it couldmean this.

Of course, someone's pupils dialate when they are on drugs, when it's dark, when they have a concussion, or when they go to a glasses doctor. Before you judge someone's body language, keep those in mind.

Another commonly cited reason the pupils dilate is in response to excitement or sexual arousal. When a person sees something or someone he finds very attractive, his eyes may dilate.

A good way to tell if someone likes you, is to study other aspects of their body language, not just their eyes. For example:

Pay attention to how close someone is to you. The closer they are, the warmer they are thinking of you. The farther away that someone is, the less they actually care of the situation or person. If you move slightly closer to them, do they move slightly further away? That means they don't want your interaction to be any more personal than it already is. If they don't move further away, then they are receptive. And if they respond by getting even closer to you, they probably really like you or are very comfortable around/by you.

Watch their head position.

• Overly tilted heads are either a potential sign of sympathy, or if a person smiles while tilting their head, they are being playful and maybe even flirting.
• Lowered heads indicate a reason to hide something. Take note if someone lowers their head. If it is when he is complimented, he may be shy, ashamed, timid, keeping distance from the other person, in disbelief, or thinking to himself or herself. If it is after an explanation, then he may be unsure if what he said was correct.
  • It should be noted that some cultures see this as a sign of respect.
• Cocked heads mean that they are confused or challenging you, depending on eye, eyebrow, and mouth gestures. Think of how a dog slightly cocks its head when you make a funny noise.

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• People who look to the sides a lot are nervous, lying, or distracted. However, if a person looks away from the speaker, it very well could be a comfort display or indicate submissiveness. Looking askance generally means the person is distrustful or unconvinced.
• If someone looks down at the floor a lot, they are probably shy or timid.
• Some cultures believe that looking at someone in the eyes is a sign of disrespect, so this could explain why someone is avoiding eye contact with you.
• http://wiki.answers.com/Dilate-or-Shrink-Your-Pupils-on-Commandmean that the person is interested. Keep in mind, however, that many drugs cause pupils to dilate, including alcohol, cocaine, amphetamines, MDMA, LSD and others. Don't mistake having a few drinks for attraction. Also, some people have permanently dilated pupils (a condition known as mydriasis).
• If their eyes seem far away, that usually indicates that a person is in deep thought or not listening.

See if they're mirroring you. Mirroring is another common gesture. If someone mirrors, or mimics your appearance, this is a very genuine sign that they are interested in you and trying to http://wiki.answers.com/Build-Rapportwith you. Try changing your body position here and there. If you find that they change theirs similarly, they are mirroring.

Check their arms.

• People with crossed arms are closing themselves to social influence. Though some people just cross their arms as a habit, it may indicate that the person is (slightly) reserved, uncomfortable with their appearance, or just trying to hide something on their shirt. If their arms are crossed while their feet are shoulder width or wider apart, this is a position of toughness or authority.
• If someone rests their arms behind their neck or head, they are open to what is being discussed or just http://wiki.answers.com/Be-Laid-Backin general.
• If their hands are on their hips, they might be waiting or impatient.
• If their hands are closed or clenched, they may be irritated, angry, or nervous.

Be aware of nervous gestures:

• If someone brushes their hair back with their fingers, this may be preening, a common gesture if the person likes you, or their thoughts about something conflict with yours. They might not voice this. If you see raised eyebrows during this time, you can be pretty sure that they disagree with you.
• If the person wears glasses, and is constantly pushing them up onto their nose again, with a slight frown, that may also indicate they disagree with what you are saying. Look to make sure they push up their glasses with an intent, not casually adjusting them. Look for pushing on the rim with two fingers, or an extra motion of wiggling the side of their glasses. The frown or raised eyebrows should tip you off.
• Lowered eyebrows and squinted eyes illustrate an attempt at understanding what is being said or going on. It's usually skeptical. This is presuming they are not trying to observe something that's far away.

Watch their feet:

• A fast tapping, shifting of weight, laughing, or movement of the foot will most often mean that the person is impatient, excited, nervous, scared, or intimidated.
  • Note though that some people with ADHD will constantly jiggle their legs. It doesn't mean anything, it's entirely subconscious and, while eccentric, it can't be stopped.
• If the person is sitting, feet crossed at the ankles means they're generally at ease.
• If while standing, a person seems to always keep their feet very close together, it probably means they are trying to be "proper" in some way.
• If they purposely touch their feet to yours, they are http://wiki.answers.com/Flirt!
• Some people may point their feet to the direction of their interest. So if it's pointing at you, he/she may be interested in you.