That she is looking to fight the wrong persone.g- A weak lady fighting a strong bodybuilder ladyHope i helpedand sorry for the horrible example at least it explains :)
it means she has placed the source of her dissatisfaction on the wrong person...a person that possessed no fault in the current grievance
The phrase means to discuss something completely different from the subject in hand or to be confused as to the expected response
You made a mistake and possibly to the wrong person
Making a mistake or a false assumption in something you are trying to achieve.