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What element is most like carbon in its chemical bonding properties?
Silicon -- it also forms 4 bonds. Usually elements in the same group or vertical column in the periodic table all have similar chemical bonding properties.
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Silicon. Silicon has the same binding properties as carbon(possibility of 4 bonds). Certain scientists have postulated that life can exist with Silicon based molecules as opposed to carbon.