the non custodial parent should always cover his / her back any support you pay pay it in a money order or pay it by check. always have proof or better yet a paper trail of what you are paying. in court custodial and non custodial parents play the word game, his work against her's. you need to proove that you are paying. if you cant proove you are doing your self more harm than good. if you buy clothes for your child. keep your reciepts so if you as the non custodial parent need to proove that you are not a dead beat you can proove it. Cash money has no real value once it leaves your hand. some custodial parents have been creative in making a $500 cash payment of child support verbally turn into $10. You always need a receipt / Proof !!!!! get a money order or a cashiers check, or a notarized letter to go with any payment you make.
Custodial parents have also tried to claim they do not want to go through the motions of having anything documented. You both have to remember it is in what is in the best interest of your child. You would be suprised to hear of how many parents treat there beloved children as pawns and trophies, and as ways to make the other parent misirable. Unfortunately it does not start out that way but in many cases it ends up that way. GET YOUR RECEIPTS and proove you are supporting your child and most importantly Reserach the laws for the state you live and if you and your child live in two different states... check the laws for both states.
If you both agree not to have support sanctioned y the court get your money orders ready or open a savings account for the child adn deposit the money in there by Money order witht the custodial parent having access to the child's account. that is a perfect paper trail.
No, In order to supercede the court order you would need to have your agreement filed with the court.
An agreement would need to be filed with the courts.
The child can not stop the child support because the support goes to his parent. The parent paying can get the agreement changed at the courts.
Most state courts use a uniform schedule to assess child support. Courts do not view child support as retaliation.Most state courts use a uniform schedule to assess child support. Courts do not view child support as retaliation.Most state courts use a uniform schedule to assess child support. Courts do not view child support as retaliation.Most state courts use a uniform schedule to assess child support. Courts do not view child support as retaliation.
Yes, and the agreement of the courts.
The two parents should sign a notarized agreement. The obligor should pay by check memoed "support for [name]" and get a receipt for each payment.
Look at your child support agreement. Or contact DHR to regain a copy.
Any such agreement must be approved by the courts and is not necessarily applicable to child support. See links below
Only if it's registered and approved by the courts. There should be no problem, unless the primary is on Welfare.
In the state of Pa...I don't know their laws. But you would think if support was not included in the agreement how come/change of circumstances? Support your kids don't wait for someone to make you. Is the support agreement legal, is it registered with the courts or just an agreement between the two. Yes I believe child support agency can administratively initiate a support order if none is in place.
Only if it's registered and approved by the courts. There should be no problem, unless the primary is on Welfare.
No, it will not! Notarized form may support a contract, but will not be good in this case. The only insitution capable of issuing such on order and honoring it is the Court. Keep in mind, in most of the states, the court will iniate an investigation on why the father is giving up his rights.