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Depends where it is in the sentence. "The birthday girl and I are going to eat cake." "Give the cake to the birthday girl and me." If it helps with compound subjects or nouns like this, imagine...
For many reasons, by definition it is a celebration or anniversary of a person who is born. Cake is one of the more Social conventional means of bringing people together. According to the world book...