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To stimulate a girl or woman, to make her feel good, you can run your finger gently along the length of her vaginal opening at first. Spend a little time gently rubbing the little hard nub above her vaginal opening, just below where the top of her "slit" begins, That is her clitoris. Don't be rough or use too much friction, as it is very sensitive. As this continues, if she is into it, her vagina will become moist ("wet") and may open slightly. You can then begin to gently slip your fingertip into the opening. Don't push hard, don't force, don't try to get it all in at once. Take it a bit at a time. This is especially important if this is new for her, and she hasn't had the experience before. If you meet resistance while inserting your finger, or if she seems in pain, STOP and ask her how it is for her before proceeding.

And make sure your hands are clean before doing this.

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== == Using your fingers on a woman's vagina can reap amazing results -- given that you do it right. Of course, it's up to you to figure out exactly what your particular woman prefers when it comes to speed, tempo and amount of fingers. So today's tip is going to offer up a bunch of ways that you can use your fingers on a woman. But before you get to work, there's one thing that's certain -- women need to be revved up and ready to go before you can manipulate their vaginas. You can't just shove your fingers inside them or rub their clitoris without ensuring arousal first. So remember to turn her on before you introduce her to your hands. 1- The rubber The clitoris is the place to be for most women. When she's adequately self-lubricated, or you put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in circular motions. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should go so fast that you end up losing focus. If she yells out something like "Don't stop!" then don't stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break away from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside their vagina at a rhythmic pace. Figure it out. 2- The fastest finger Does your woman prefer to have slow, exaggerated sex, or hop up and down on you like a bunny? If it's the latter, then using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds may be beneficial in the orgasm department. You'd be best served to position yourself in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. It also lessens the chances of missing your target. 3- The helping hand If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she'll be juicing all over the place. While you use the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. And it's not a race; you don't have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she'll let you know. At least, she should. 4- The screw In the spirit of the "fastest finger" technique, you'll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Again, sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and come out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm. Tip: When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, tap her clitoris with your thumb each time. 5- The G-spot indicator Sitting in front of her with palm facing up, when you insert your finger(s) inside her, make a "come hither" motion. Your objective is to try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect hitting her G-spot. Don't get aggressive right away, however. Start off slowly and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed. 6- The shocker If you and your woman enjoy experimenting and you've explored the back end before, then this one may be quite enjoyable for her. While you're using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinky finger in her anus (your hand must be sideways, that is, your palm would be facing her thigh). While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously. Keep in mind that after you place a finger into her anus, you cannot place that same finger into her vagina -- it may lead to infection. 7- The slider This one needs good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver. Manipulating the vagina to orgasm is not as difficult as you may think. Once you manage to arouse her mind, her body will follow. And of course, you should encourage her to be vocal about what she likes.

Manual stimulation for a girl should be relaxed and okay with her first, as all sexual interaction with another person should be. Make sure she is comfortable with you doing this. If this is the case, you will first rub around her vaginal area, to make her vagina more lubricated and ready for digital penetration. If the two of you prefer to use a store-bought lubrication such as KY that is okay too. Just be sure to never insert anything into her vagina if it is dry because it can result in pain, discomfort and irritation (possibly even bleeding from the friction) for her. Once her vaginal opening is lubricated just insert one finger (most men use either the index or middle finger). Don't insert too far though, only up to about your middle knuckle until she is comfortable. Once your finger is inserted, massage her vagina. Be gentle and pay attention to her movements, sounds and breaths. If she doesn't seem to be enjoying it, ask her if she is okay, or if she would like you to do something else or change your method. Communication between each other is always very important in a sexually active relationship.

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Easy, you just insert one finger into the hole then you slowly slide your next finger in. keep going until all your fingers are in.

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The best technique to rub a woman's vagina is to experiment with fast and slow touches.

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