Abuse, neglect, or incapability.
"Shared parenting with no relocation" means no. Take it to the authorities.
Who spends a child's disability money should be part of the divorce or custody agreement. You can ask to amend the agreement.
Here is a short paragraph from an article about shared parenting: "Shared parenting is the term used to describe a situation where parents are separated, but still sharing the responsibilities of raising a child together. Shared parenting is usually stressful for parents, because they must remain in contact, on a close basis, with someone they no longer want as an intimate part of their lives. Shared parenting can be difficult for a child as well, because he or she may feel torn between the two parents. For shared parenting to work, the adults must agree to put the child at first priority. "
This would be called joint custody. This could also be called shared parenting. This is usually one arrangement that is in the best interest of the child.
Partnership Agreement is considered better as decision making process can be done easily. Business responsibilities and liabilities can easily be shared in a partnership agreement.
One type of bad parenting story is when that little adopted boy didn't want to do what his mom told him to, and the mother made him have hot sauce, and took him naked into an extremely cold shower. Good thing the sister had a camera and recorded it and shared it with the world, otherwise that little boy would suffer. That is very bad parenting. Frankenstein or the Modern Prometheus. One of the major themes of the book is the 'Nature vs Nurture' debate.
prenuptial agreement clarifies your shared responcibilities giving your partner a piece of mindand more time to concentrate on enjoying your relationship
Non custodial parent does not mean the parent has no custody. One parent has primary custodial and the other parent has secondary custodial. Unless you have sole custody of the child you should also have a shared parenting agreement. Neither parent should do anything without notifying the other party, except for emergencies. If there is no agreement in place, get one. Both parents should be involved in the parenting decision of the chid. Remember, you both brought this child into the world. It doesn't happen alone.
I think every situation is different. My parents have joint custody over me.
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Whether he should, morally the answer would be no. However, this does not preclude cases where the mother earns considerable less, so he is still ordered to pay. Child support is for the children's support which is also needed when the children are with the mother. This should have been addressed by the court at the time of the support award.