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The human need for approval, acceptance and love. A person usually returns in the hope of becoming close with an abuser because they cannot understand that the reason they were unaccepted and loved is a problem with the abuser and NOT A PROBLEM with the child. The step child WAS and IS loveable. More often than not, this will not work because as stated above, the ABUSER has the issue, not the abused.

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