What makes women fall in love with men In particular what attributes make a woman fall for a man at first sight or on just a few minutes conversation?

-samishiyoru

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I have no idea but I understand where you are coming from because I am in the same boat, very recent. I am only 16 years old yes, and he is 23, but hes different from the other ones, hes sensitive but not too sensitive, he worries about the age, hes funny, he doeasnt care about what others think about him or what he does, he plays video games yes, but hes ot a nerd, he works, he likes to spoil me, hes extremely attractive, we share interests, i trust him which I dont normally do very easily, hes honest, hes extremly sweet, held onto his virginity til he was 21 cuz she had morals and was waiting for that "special someone" and he got hurt, he feels pain when relationships dont work, hes outgoing, he has good sense of humor, he can read me somehow, and when I got tired and put my head down, he made sure I was ok, and I dont know, hes so easy to talk to, he compliments me alot and hes able to talk me about anything; already! =D hes everything a girl wants, Everything I do anyways plus more, but I have only really talked to him and hungout with 3 times. but it feels like we've known eachother forever. Its little things like this that even being with someone for such a short time,can make you love them forever. I don't really understand it but it'd be nice too, I haven't felt like this about anyone I ahve dated in my life. I enjoy looking into his eyes and he said the same, and hes not a sexual person, and I am well aware and hes well aware that if it goes anywhere, it wont be a sexual relationship and were ok with that, altho im at consenting age, i am a minor and i wouldnt want to do anything to jeopardize anything for him. now, dating isnt illegal. So its something hard to explain not knowing someone for very long at all but somehow it feels as though they already have your heart.

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Thanks to the last contributor, very heartfelt, I hope it works out for you. Actually I am a man trying to figure out how some women seem to fall in love with me,instantly, and why.It's not as great as it might sound. I often end up disappointing them, so I want to know what I might be doing to give them the wrong idea. So if some of the women out there could tell me what seems to draw her instantly to a man,on those rare occasions, that helps. But thanks for being so honest with your feelings, that helps, explains what is it about your man that so impacts on you.

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