What should be the concerns of dating a divorced man with a child?

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Dating a divorced man with a child can be positive if you both communicate well. These are some things you may have to consider:

• How often must he see his ex if she has the child and he has visitation rights.
• You will have to get to know the child very slowly as the child if 3 or up just wants 'mom and dad' and is already reeling from his/her parents splitting up. Be patient and kind with the child and mean it because that child will be a part of your life as long as you are with this divorced man.
• If he should have sole custody of the child be very careful that he's not looking for a baby sitting service or maid service. Take it slow and easy.
• Be sure that his ex will be no problem for the two of you in the future. With luck she may be married again or at least seeing someone else.
• Retain good communication skills with a divorced man and let him know up front that other than his child you should come first.

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