What should you do if you're 13 and wear girls' clothes and nobody in your family knows?

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Dont worry about it i love to wear girl panties all the time and i wish i had a sister to wear here panties and clothes but i don't.=[.don't worry about what the people think just do what your heart tell you to do.and yes....girls clothes do feel really good don't they :).

AnswerI don't really understand your question. Are you a girl or boy? Are you trying to hide the way you dress from your family or are you wondering why they don't notice you? AnswerThen keep on if that's your hearts desire , But keep in mind and ask yourself what are you going to say when you get caught ?

Inevitably you will have to come out .

new==im in the same situation

If your family has a sense of humor then use it to your advantage and put on a silly fashion show and see what their reaction is.You can also try wearing a few or just one item from time to time and when you are asked about it,assuming they notice at all, just say I could not find my ----- and just grabbed this. Actually, its quite comfortable. Hopefully it will atleast give you a semi-answer if you are thinking about "coming out".Be u and b happy!!!

ANOTHER ANSWERWHAT YOU ARE doing is called "transvestism", which simply means wearing clothing of the opposite sex. Being a transvestite has nothing to do with your sexual orientation, as so many misinformed people say. Many men like to wear womens clothing, and some of them happen to be homosexual. Being a transvestite does not MEAN that you ARE homosexual; the majority of transvestites are NOT homosexual. Same goes for women that wear men's clothing. Some men, if not most, prefer to dress in female clothing while they are in private; it's something they enjoy. Some men may just wear womens panties instead of boxers. AND, some men go all the way, dressing completely as a woman, with make-up and wigs and go out in public, and enjoy "passing" as a woman. However, most men who wear womens clothing enjoy doing it in private. At your young age, you may be just "experimenting" with transvestism and may or may not continue it into adulthood. I see no reason why you "have" to "come out" to your parents or anyone else for that matter. If you prefer to dress that way in private, that is YOUR business. If you prefer to tell your parents or anyone else, that is YOUR business. Don't let anyone convince you that you "must be" crazy, gay, mentally ill, perverted or anything else. If you are a good, respectful young man who is honest, goes to school, does his homework, respects his parents and himself, works hard, is law abiding, is kind to other people, is trustworthy and uses good common sense; DRESS AS YOU PLEASE, and don't do anything to intetionally hurt anyone, especially your parents. As far as everyone else is concerned, it's not really any of their business what clothing you choose to wear. WISH YOU WELL <<>> AnswerHey I understand you completely I am 14 and I like wearing girls clothes as well but I am not gay. So first see how your family is like for example my mom well she would freak out but my dad he is very comprehensive, so you first see what kind of people they are and then if you think they will comprehend you then its okay to say so. It is easier if you tell them so they can, help you like buy clothes for you and even you can walk around the house wearing them with out worrying about getting cot or anything. Hope it helps if you want you can contact me at my email jkolol@hotmail.com.

i am an 11 yr old girl who finds that very attractive

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I have almost the same problem. I LOVE to were girls cloths but im scared to show it to anyone! especialy my dad. I have no access to girls clothing I just stay depressed wanting them. im new to answers and i dont know how to ask a question so can somone please tell me how to get girls clothing without anyone knowing?I would also love having somone to salk to with the same problem [no homo]

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Dude Dont Worry i Have the same problem i love to wear girls panties they are quite comfortable. so dont worry you can tell your pearents when your ready.

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This is the answer from the original poster of this question (differnt username), hard to think it was nearly now 7 Years ago. I didn't tell and kind of grew out of it for a while but still wanted the feeling every so often, bought some tights once but thought what was I doing and then threw them away. I may buy own lingerie body(suit) and tights it doesn't bother me as much. Advice wise what I can say is in someone else reading this why are you doing it. Is it actually for sexual pleasure discretly more than liking wearing, if so masturbate. If it's the feel or comfort or that you just feel right wearing them you just have to weigh up wether to keep it a secret/discrete or tell them. They will honestly not love you less if they are good parents (esp if it's just panties etc).

I wouldn't go gimmicky with a fashion show or anything. If you keep it a secret then that's fine too (what I Did). As it was usually just bra body and tights/pantyhose. the body and padded bra my mum went to throw out so i had hid it in her room. Keeping it secret comes with a health warning as it can be stressful and you need to be a good hider! Had a few near misses in my time and until the lingerie was i knew not wanted felt extra wrong as it wasn't mine.

In short have a think about it, I obsessed and really wanted to wear it but years on I can be without it though still at times want lingerie like recently which is why I came back to this.

Lastly don't worry as you are not alone. If you want some advice message me on this answers page i'll try to check it.