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I got pregnant early too, abortion should never be an option. Let's leave death in the hands of God. My boyfriend stayed by my side when I got pregnant and 6 years later, we're married and now have two children,. I love my life now, but I remember how stressed out when i was pregnant and all I can tell you is that if you do decide to give the baby up for adoption you are not being cruel! People that adopt can't have children and would do just about anything to bring a child into their home to love and cherish that child. Not to mention adoption agencies charge anywhere from $20,000 to $50,000 to adopt. Someone that does adopt usually is well to do, and someone that is willing to pay that much for an adoption obviously wants a child very badly. Concerning your mother, she'll love you no matter what happens, and once this precious baby is born things will change altogether. In my situation once my daughter was born every was thrilled....a baby is ALWAYS exciting, and a blessing. Just lean on God for strength as truly He is the only one that can give you true strength and comfort as you decide what's best for your baby and you. God Bless. I've had the exact same situation. 15 w/ a boyfriend and a baby. I'm 16 now, with a 7month old. Trust me, life is MUCH more fun without a baby, but I still love my little one. I wish I would have looked more into adoption, when I was pregnent I felt pretty set in my ways on keeping the baby, but now I see that was foolish of my to ignore the option of adoption. I'm sure you've been warned also before, you boyfriend may not (or probably won't) stay with you. I was a lucky one (so far). I wish the best for you!!! Adoption is NOT cruel. Deciding to put a child up for adoption is one of the most unselfish things that a parent can do. Should you put the child up for adoption? I can't tell you that. You need to consider a lot of things when making the decision, but you also need to remember this: it's not about what you want anymore, it's about what's best for your child. adoption is a solution but also you have to look at like this if you are old enough to have sex and create the baby the you should be the one to take care of it. I got preggo when i was 16 and had her when i was 17. I would not trade anything in the world for her. Me and her father are together and married. I am not telling you what to do i am just telling you to think about it. The pregnant minor can obtain counseling and assistance from state and national agencies, two of which are Planned Parenthood, 1-800-230-7526, http://www.plannedparenthood.org and Birthright, 1-800-550-4900, http://www.birthright.org

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Q: What should you do if you're 15 and pregnant and your boyfriend is staying by your side and you don't want an abortion but you don't know if you want the baby either because adoption is so cruel?
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