What should you do if you're in an affair with a married man and for over a year and a half there have been nothing but broken promises?

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Unpredictable behavior achieves two goals: (1) Control over you and (2) Avoidance of intimacy.

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If you're dating a married man then you dont deserve anything better then broken promises.

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Please see my response to "Has anyone gone from a mistress to a new wife and still feels the relationship was true love?" on this site. I have experienced the other side, but can remember what it was like to be where you are now. However, our promises to each other WERE fulfilled. My contact information is at the bottom of my entry if you would like to contact me personally. I certainly empathize with your situation.

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Well I have been on both sides too. I have been cheated on and done the cheating but I never would mess with another womans man or husband. That is dirty selfish and low.

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You should do nothing but repent and ask God for forgiveness and then leave him and find a man of your own. If you were married how would you like it if someone was with your husband for a year and a half? Evidently you need help not him but you. You have NO MORALS, LOW SELF-ESTEEM, and obviously VERY VERY BAD JUDGEMENT of character. Why do I say this and I don't even know you? Because you with a da*m married man. Get a life.

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break his heart and leave...aint it obvious!?

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I can't resist what I am about to say:

How would you feel if you were married and your husband was cheating on you? If the answer to that is "bad", why would you even be in a relationship knowing you could be hurting another person(s)? If you are heartless enought to not be bothered by the possibility of hurting other people, then, aren't you tough enough to take a little betrayal yourself?

Oh, by the way: He's never going to leave his wife. If anything, your presence is making their love stronger.

Get with the program. You're insecure and love the feeling of being able to steal a man away from his wedded one. However, if you'll look closely, it doesn't take THAT much to distract a man like him away from his family ... he's lacking integrity (because he's lying to his family). Fulfill your sense of self elsewhere and stop undermining your fellow women.

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I think a married man's mistress is always in a losing position. What usually happens is the man realises after the lust wears off that the mistress is human with flaws. The wife then becomes more appealing as he may come to accept her humanity and with that, flaws even more! The mistress never wins. She ends up alone. While the wife gets her old husband back and they might actually start having romance and fun again, then the mistress is dumped. Dont go with a married man. You are not second best. Please think of his wife. She may really love him, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS!!!