What should you do if you and a guy have loved each other for a year but he lives too far away and now he has a girlfriend but he still loves and misses you?

Answer

move on,you'll find new interest too.

WHAT!
hey, i am in this situation right now, and you know what? don't give up on each other. yeah, both of you might have other relationships but that can't be helped. i mean, life would be so boring if the you didn't like someone you could see almost everyday. but always keep a special place in your heart for that person. just because you have he or she has a relationship doesn't mean you should forget them and move on. you never know, you might see them again. do everything you can to be with them if you are sure that you like them. don't find someone else just to replace them, or because they are almost as good as the person you love who is far away. make it work. the obstacle of distance can easily be overcome if you fight for it. i have heard that, "distance makes the heart grow fonder." it is true. and when you see eachother again, it will be rewarding.

if he loves you, misses you, and has a girlfriend, accept it. if he says he loves you eventhough he has a girlfriend, he could mean two things. 1- he can't quit telling you he loves you because he doesn't want to hurt you or 2- he means it. usually he means it. if he didn't care for you, he would move on and you would know. if he misses you, he means it. don't give up. but if all fails, don't be dissapointed. you tried hard.

A different answer:

I can't possibly agree with what's said above. If the guy says he really loves you and still he's involved with another, he doesn't really love anyone (not you, and not her) but himself, and only seeks his own pleasure.

Just think: if he really is in love with you -- why is he using another girl as a substitute? Is that fair to the other girl, who might fall genuinely in love? What does that tell you about his character?

It's no use waiting and moping around for a guy who clearly doesn't feel like waiting for you. He's with another now, and this must hurt awfully, but he's being unreasonable to still want to keep you as a long distance 'back-up.' He's making two girls miserable (and possibly even himself) just because he can't decide to stop being selfish.

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