Having a pair of women's underwear in his drawer is not necessarily a sign of cheating.
Have a one on one conversation with the Counselor, and tell them of the evidence and your suspicions.
Trust is earned and your husband broke that bond of trust so he is going to have to earn it back. Both of you should seek marriage counseling to get to the root of why your husband thought he should cheat and the counselor can give tools for the couple to work with and strengthen their marriage. A marriage counselor is not there to blame either party, but to get you both to see the weak spots in your marriage and work on them. No, you will probably not trust your husband for cheating for awhile because trust is earned.
No. I'd suggest seeking the help of a marriage counselor if you suspect he's not being faithful.
that just means that the lady is cheating on her husband to be with your husband
For it to be considered marriage counseling, both parties need to attend. You can always get individual counseling, if your husband does not want to go.
Get a lawyer or go to family counseling.
To get the most out of marriage counseling, communicate openly and honestly with your partner and the therapist. Be willing to explore difficult topics and emotions, and commit to making changes based on the therapist's recommendations. Practice active listening and empathy with your partner, and be open to learning new communication and conflict resolution skills.
No. You should either see a marriage counselor to fix your relationship or file for a divorce, but do not cheat in retaliation. It is a childish idea and will only create more issues.
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
Yes. Unless he is really committed and really wants to get help for his cheating, like through marriage counseling, then you should stay. But otherwise divorce him. Cuz he will still continue to cheat.
From the Catholic perspective, spouses generally receive some pre-marital counseling by a priest and should have been advised to be respectful of one another's beliefs. Most Catholic priests would advise marriage counseling (either with the priest or another counselor).
"Cheating" in a marriage is the informal term for being unfaithful to your marriage vows. Having extra marital sex is an act of being unfaithful.
You can never be sure that your husband will never cheat again. If he has been a solid type of man in the past then he may have made a mistake which humans tend to do. Both of you need to seek marriage counseling to get to the root of the problem and to learn tools to deal with any problems in your marriage.