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Take a risk. If you don't, then you're always going to wonder and in turn be miserable. Same thing happened here. I'm now married to the other man, we have a beautiful and happy little boy, and we're doing wonderful. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Do what makes you happy, or you will never be happy. Do you remember those things called "vows" that you took when you chose to marry your husband? I think you should seek counseling before acting out on how you feel. It doesn't appear that you have made much of an effort to try to rectify problems in your marriage. Communication is everything in a marriage and your husband just shouldn't be your lover, but your best friend. I don't see anywhere where it's written in stone that marriage is easy. Grow up! Get some help and don't hurt your husband by fooling around with other men. If after counseling you feel there is no hope in your marriage then have the guts to face your husband and tell him you want a divorce and why.

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