What should you think about your boyfriend if he likes to wear your high heels when you're alone?

Answer 1

I think its cool that your man wears them alone. My fiancee loves when I wear high heel sandals in the house. I would rather wear them in public and so does she. Well, I would love to wear them in public but I am afaird that people would think I am gay and I am straight. People don't under stand that gay is liking the same sex not wanting to wear a certen pair of shoes.

Wear some with him! What's the big deal? If you love each other or are still attracted to one another, go for it! Make it fun and sexy! What's wrong with it? I'd love to wear high heels but damn the way U.S. society is so strung up tight and paranoid about differences, no way! Americans tend to be cruel to crossdressers, transgendered, gays etc. Not like Europe or even Asia and Australia! Way more open minded and way less viloence there too! As an American I am very tolerant and teach my kids the same! It's the RIGHT thing to do!

AnswerMarcy is right , You need to sit down and have a conversation with him . however if you truly love him it could be overlooked . Just think you now have someone to shop for shoes with . When Marcy talks about poodle skirts and such it brings back memories when i used to do the same as her brother did and didnt mind it . I miss being the Mannequin and sincerely wished I could relive them days somehow . Now that Im older and have explored the net and continue to do so I have found vast information and still seek it out when my job permits it . Im management in a fortune 500 company , some of my employees < the female ones Have an idea that I crossdress > But its kept quiet . Truth be told I get along far better with women than I do men . The girls as I would like to call them say I have great taste in picking out stuff as I gave everyone Christmas presents this year . Crossdressers have an advantage over regular men , They generally have good taste , they are loyal and don't take it the wrong way if he looks at other women he is just admireing or thinking to himself what she is wearing and how good or bad it looks . Also he trusts you with such an important secret that he has probably kept hid for many years . Take in all of his good qualities and see how good a person he really is . Ill bet he enjoys shopping doesnt he ?

He's comfortable enough to do this around you, so you should feel comfortable enough to sit down and talk about this with him. Many men like to cross-dress, and all cross-dressers don't wear ALL women's clothing. Some may wear women's underwear and even wear them under their own jeans or business suits, while other men love nylons or high heels. It also doesn't make them gay if they choose to do this. When boys are small they can often wear their mothers dresses, skirts or even some of their sister's clothing. My brother (straight as an arrow and married with 2 boys) use to love wearing my poodle skirts (use to wear those in the 50s) and if my mom would let him "swirl" in them he'd let her put the skirt on him and hem it for me. We'd laugh our heads off. Other times he'd steal my bra and wear it over his shirt and race through the house giggling his head off. My brother also had a friend that would stick a patch of satin in his jacket pocket and when he was nervous he would rub the shiny side together. However odd it appeared it calmed him down. To each their own.

I suggest you sit down with him and ask why he does this. DON'T TELL HIM YOU ASKED THIS QUESTION ON A BOARD! If you're uncomfortable with his actions then tell him so. If he can't give up this habit for reasons of his own you are going to have to make the decision to stay or leave.

Good luck Marcy