What to do if you do not what a unborn baby?

Answer 1

If you do not want an unborn baby?

First you have to really think about it - are you sure that you definitely do not want it ? Because at the end of the day this is your flesh and blood. Remember many people change their mind later in pregnancy or even when they give birth. Do not be influenced by anyone! This is your choice!

There are really three options ;

1. Abortion - I really do not agree with abortion although I could never say unless I was in the situation but you are ending the life of the baby. You could later regret it or something could go wrong and you become infertile? But if you see no way of you wanting the baby in any way for you or anyone else then I suppose abortion is the choice for you.

2. Keep It - This is your baby - you could eventually warm to the idea of having a child and may really love it if you're ready . But no one wants to be born as an unwanted child you really have to think about it.

3. Adoption - You could go along with the pregnancy and give the baby to a loving family who may be unable to have children where it will have a loving and beautiful childhood. However they all have to be thought through properly.

At the end of the day this is YOUR decision - do not do what anyone wants you to do - not your mother or boyfriend or anyone else this is something that you will live with for the rest of your life; good or bad . But life goes on and with love and support from friends e.t.c you can get through it.

I hope I have helped!

Do whatever YOU feel is right!

Good Luck with whatever YOU choose to do . xx