You love someone who lies to you, cheats on you, and uses drugs?
No, you cannot trust him, & that's all right. He CHEATED on you. He LIES to you. HE WAS UNFAITHFUL. Thankfully, trust can sometimes be earned back & relationships can be saved. You can try couples therapy or counseling.
For it to be considered marriage counseling, both parties need to attend. You can always get individual counseling, if your husband does not want to go.
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
Get a lawyer or go to family counseling.
Humans aren't perfect as we all know. If this is his first fling and it's over and he feels bad about it then it's worth another chance. Then it's time to sit down, learn to communicate and start working on your marriage. You can also go to marriage counseling for extra help. If he abusive physically/mentally or has cheated more than once then kick his hide out the door and file for divorce.
Open lines of communication, and possibly therapy.
If you have never cheated and just your husband has then it is not you that needs to forgive yourself, but your husband needs to smarten up and see what he has done to you. There are no excuses for cheating! If people are that unhappy in a relationship they should have the fortitude to face the person and tell them the relationship is over and then start dating other people. People who cheat are spineless; have no moral sense; do not respect the feelings of their spouse and are self centered and selfish. Your husband needs to earn your trust back if he wants to come back into the marriage and if so, then marriage counseling would be a good idea to give you both the tools to learn to communicate better and to deal with any problems you have in your marriage.
try counseling and if it doesnt work out then you may have to get a divorce
Both of you are abusive to each other. You need counseling. Family counseling and anger management counseling.
What's the problem, you didn't do anything wrong, he's the one who cheated. He's the one who has to face the music.
If you are fairly sure your husband has not continuously cheated and this is the first time he has strayed then no, you wouldn't be a fool for trying to save your marriage. Sit down and talk to your husband and hopefully he will agree to go to marriage counseling. Explain to him that the psychologist is not there to blame either spouse, but to give them tools to strengthen their marriage and only there to point out where you are going wrong when communicating with each other. Communication skills and talking about each other's feelings are a necessity in any good marriage. If your husband is constantly cheating then this is a red flag that he will continue to do so and it would be to your best interest to dissolve the marriage and move on in your life.
I would suggest that you go for a marriage counseling before you get married. It really helps when you apply what you learn... Well if you ever needed to have a counseling for your marriage at any point maybe your boyfriend or husband isn't the one for you! No offence because this is coming from a young age I told my mother the same thing!