If you are writing to a widow whose last name is different from her husband's, you should use the title "Ms." with her name ("Ms. Brown," not "Mrs. Brown"). Even though she may use a different name from her husband's, it is unlikely that she would be upset if you used her husband's name ("Mrs. Smith" instead of "Ms. Brown"). After all, that name connects her to the man whose loss she is grieving, so she might like it.
However you would address them individually with and in between, as:Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Jane Jones
When addressing an envelope to a recent widow, it is customary to write the person's name starting with the title "Mrs.". Just because a woman is a widow does not mean that a woman is not still married.
Formality be damned-- I would address it Mrs. ____, unless I have already established a long-time first name basis relationship with her, or I am already aware that she prefers not using Mrs. as an address. The time of sending a sympathy card is NOT the time to be ripping away a recent widow's sense of identity. Many continue using 'Mrs.' throughout the rest of their lives even if they remain unmarried. There is nothing at all wrong with that.
Not usually. Sympathy cards are usually sent to people you know. Simply signing your name inside should let them know who it's from.
Dear Name of person, Your message. Sincerely, with love, Deeply sorry. Your name
The discretion lies with the lady. If she's still using her married name, it must be Mrs. & if she has reverted back to her maiden name, it may be Ms.
Logically, a sympathy card is addressed to the survivors of the immediate family, collectively. e.g. The Smith Family 1234 Main St. Anywhere, USA In a situation where there is only the surviving spouse, a sympathy card should be addressed as follows : Mr. John Smith 1234 Main St. or Mrs. John Smith 1234 Main St. NB. When the wife is the sole survivor, you do not use her first name in the address, but rather, her husband's first name
In a sympathy card addressed to a judge, it is appropriate to use their full professional title, such as "Dear Judge [Last Name]." Express your condolences respectfully, acknowledging their loss in a compassionate manner. Keep the message brief and sincere, offering support during their difficult time.
the male name for a widow is a "widower"
Yes, you should always put a return address on any envelope. The person you are sending the sympathy card may not know your last name or address and also the Postal Service needs to have a return address in case you put the wrong address down of the recipient.
Just put his name. Ex: Joe, I'm sorry to hear about... My Sympathies, Sally Sue
It is etiquette to put the wife's name first and inside the card put her name first and then the husbands (the deceased was his mother-in-law) so he should be included.