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There's one located in the owners' manual - and the fuse diagram is actually embossed/molded into the plastic on the back of the fuse compartment cover.
There are 2 boxes. The main fuses and relays are under the hood - drivers side in a rectangular black box. The minor fuses are located in the car. At the bottom left of the instrument panel there is...