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Because he wants his "cake and icecream" too
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There are some married men that will not leave their affair partner, some of their reason will be; this other woman is so different than his wife. He already fell in love with her and afraid to loose her. His affair partner is more understanding than his wife. They will also say that she knows how to make time for him. his wife never had time because she is to busy with the children.
They will say that intimacy or sex hardly happen, they will also say that their wife always nagging and complaining. There's a lot more reason why some married men will never let go their affair partner.
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 13y agoThere are many reasons why men don't leave their wives. One of them is that it's a hard and difficult process to go through a divorce. When you are married everything is shared. Housing, funds, etc. It would cause a major upheaval in both parties lives to divorce. So it's just easier and more convenient to stay married. Sad as that fact may be it's the truth. Also, in many cases the man having the affair is selfish. Why would he give up his wife when he has the best of both worlds? He gets to be a family man when it suits him and gets to be free the rest of the time. If you are waiting around for a man to think you are good enough to leave his wife over, I feel bad for you. You deserve so much more. Deep down inside I know that you know that. Start trying to build up your self esteem and get rid of this guy. Yes, it will hurt in the beginning but it will hurt much much more to continue waiting around for something that will probably never happen. Your time is valuable, DON'T waste it on someone that isn't worth it.
There is no reason why he should. He is probably in love with her, after all he married her.
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∙ 13y agoWhy some married men cannot let go of their affair after they have been found cheating:
- They are still in love with their mistress.
- They love their wife because she fills part of his needs and loves his mistress because she fills the other part of his needs.
- He cannot commit to one woman.
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It could be that he loves the other woman. Sex is better than what he had with his wife. The mistress do not ask question why his late, she never nag, like the wife do. My husband said this to me that all I do is nag at him, Ditto right? The other woman will do everything to satisfy him esp. in bed....and there are lots more..
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∙ 12y ago- When a man stops contacting his mistress it could be his wife found out and threatened him and most men do not want to lose their wife or children if they have any; or, he is bored and is moving on. Mistresses are under the impression that they are something special, but in reality most are just a sex toy to the married man looking for either a younger woman or having a sexual relationship for the excitement and pleasure. Most mistresses lose out and a low percentage ever marry the man as he is generally not about to lose his wife and family or perhaps the cost of a divorce and the money he could lose in the process and if his marriage should end in divorce some men want to be free to play the field.
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∙ 13y ago- Some humans want what they know they cannot have and this appears to be the case with this spouse not being able to see their mistress. When a married man has a mistress it is generally all about sex and a high percentage of mistresses lose out and may either be cheated on by the married man or, the man goes back to his wife. The spouse that is being cheated on needs to think things out and face reality and decide if their spouse is going to continue to cheat because he does not love her and seeks refuge with a mistress. The wife cannot threaten or try to control her husband from keeping in contact with the mistress so she has one of two options: #1 Seek marriage counseling and #2 File for at least separation or divorce.
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Why would a married man ignore your text when everything was good?
Most married men who cheat love the idea of the excitement and pleasure they receive from their mistress, but in most cases it is short lived. Married men often lie to their mistress so you are not really sure what feelings he had for you. Generally married men never marry their mistress.
Does a married man often lets down his mistress?
Yes, married men can often let their mistress down as they are often bound to their families and their family will come first and the mistress will be the last on the food chain of life. Men often have a mistress to gain their youth back; sex is at the forefront and romance is heated for a short time, but as the relationship with the mistress persists some married men will become bored with her or, if the wife finds out and threatens to divorce him, married men often choose to let the mistress go and they stay with the wife.
Married man love affair?
Married men should be off limits to either single women or married women of any age. There use to be a code where most women didn't go after a married man, but unfortunately the morals of today are sadly abused and it seems anything goes. Women who go after married men or say yes to a married man are cheap and all they generally become is a mistress and the married man may be caught up in his mistress because it is a new relationship, but if he cheated on his wife he generally will cheat on his mistress or, he will become bored with her. The mistress almost always loses out and married men often go back to their wives or, if they don't they will simply move on. It is a very low percentage where married men will divorce and either live with their mistress or marry her.
Why does a man want a mistress?
When some men are married for a year or so and realize that it is much different than just dating and both couples need to face reality such as both working towards the future or, after several years of marriage the married man feels restless as if he wants to reach back into his youth and needs to know other women are attracted to him he will find a mistress. The wife has had to put up with him for a year or several years and sometimes boredom can set in for the husband, but meeting someone new is exciting and the sexual relationship is as well, but if the married man keeps seeing the mistress for a fair length of time he will soon realize that 'the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence) and he is once again bored. Some married men will find another mistress or, they may return home to their wives and settle down. Basically, these types of married men become slightly obsessed with their mistress because their relationship is new and exciting and he has no commitments. This is a high sign of immaturity on the married man's part.
Do married men jealous over their mistress?
Yes, some men get jealous over their mistress, but this does not always mean the married man loves the mistress, but some men feel she is their property and in only a very few cases is it truly love. Remember, this married man has a wife and he would be jealous if his wife had another man on the string. Mistresses often lose when a wife is involved and if the cheating man really cared about the affair she would not be his mistress; he would get a divorce and either live with her or marry her.
Statistics on relationships between married men who leave their wives for another woman?
A bit on a negative side. Married men thinks that if they leave their wife for their mistress, his life will be different. He will assume that what he have now with his mistress will be much fun that what his been having with his wife, until he finds out the behavior of his mistress or vice versa. Few married men who left their wife only last 3-4 months, and there are some that last a year, no longer.
Does a mistress end up marrying the married man she is seeing?
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
What does it mean if a married man told his mistress he hasn't kissed anyone as long or as much as he kissed her?
When a married man tells his mistress he has never kissed anyone as long or as much as her is lying through his teeth. Married men when single had at least one or more girlfriends and then they chose the girl they married so passions were high at the time. Married men tell mistresses what they want to hear because it is all about sex. The statistics for a mistress having a married man get a divorce and marry her is extremely low so he is basically using her for his own selfish needs and the mistress ends up losing her self respect.
If a married man told his ex mistress when I see you I am going to think about what we did does that mean he does not think about it when he goes home knowing he was caught cheating?
Men who decide to have a mistress do so mainly because the excitement of secretly meeting that mistress and the long and short of it is ... it is all about sex. The mistress is often used and seldom does a married man ever marry his mistress. The wife generally wins out if she catches him cheating or, even if he and his wife divorce most men seldom marry their mistress and prefer their freedom. Of course he will think of the sexual relationship he had with you even when he is home, but sex and cheating does not mean he loves his mistress. Men who have mistresses are often arrogant; self indulged and selfish and have little regard as to how he could hurt his wife and use the mistress.
Married man falls for his mistress?
sometimes ANSWER: yes they do. In scale of 1-10, 8% of married men do fall in love with the other woman. and include the man I married, big time..
Why would a married man get upset when his mistress does not want to be friends?
A married man who expects his mistress to just be friends is either unintelligent or has a high opinion of himself. Married men who cheat and have a mistress on the side generally use that mistress for a sexual relationship only, but some mistresses believe that the man truly loves her over his wife. The man should stop cheating and consider other people's feelings other than his own.
Why do married men treat the other single woman they fancied bad?
The single woman is called a 'mistress' and what should she expect. In most cases men who choose to have a mistress are basically using them for sexual favors and may either be nice to them (if that is their personality) or treat them badly (he could have treated his wife badly as well and may even have a dislike of women in general.) At first the married man will show his good characteristics, but soon will become bored with his mistress (the percentage of a married man getting a divorce and marrying his mistress is extremely low) and is some cases the married man will go back to his wife.
