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Anger. Often it's a response to feelings of rejection, equating the abuse with a sense of being emotionally rejected by the abuser. Anger is a common response by a depressed individual. Especially depressed males.

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Q: Why do abused teens feel the need to fight the abuser ALL the time even if they're not doing anything?
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