Why do girls tease guys?

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When it comes to sexual teasing, the reasons and the methods used vary a great deal. Some girls do it for attention ; they want to be looked at or desired. Some enjoy the feeling of power over men, knowing they can arouse a man even when he tries to keep his cool. Some even see it as a feminist way to empower women. Some do it to show off for their friends. Some like to toy with a guy on a date and then refuse to satisfy him because it makes them feel they've 'won the game'. Some girls tease for revenge, getting back at a guy who has been rude to them by giving him a case of painful 'blue balls'. Some girls tease to test guys. If the guy takes the bait right away, they figure he's only looking to use them for sex. Some girls use teasing to confirm their view that men are helpless sex-craving pathetic people who can be led around by their sexual organs. Some girls get a kind of sexual satisfaction from teasing and come away feeling as if they'd had sex without having to let the man do anything. This is especially true of girls who have never had an orgasm. There are some girls who tease to keep a guy interested in them while they decide when to actually go all the way with him. Girls tease because they can see effects. The guy blushes, his pants bulge, he tries to hide it, he gets frisky and tries advances on her etc. They are amused at how easy it is to turn a guy on and how much more control they have. Some limit it to teasing methods they think don't go too far, such as dressing provocatively, acting friendly and flirtatious around men, talking about sex with men and showing men photos of them modeling lingerie. These methods are more socially acceptable than making out on a date and leaving the guy frustrated. Sometimes a teaser can be subtle enough that her victim doesn't realize she is purposely arousing him. In those cases, one reason she does it is that there are no consequences. This may involve "accidentally" brushing up against a man or sitting so he can almost see up her skirt, bending over a pool table, flashing panties when getting out of a car and hiking up her skirt when sitting with him. Girls sometimes tease a boyfriend to make sex later on more explosive- or just for the fun of it. In general, they do it because they can. Males are far easier to turn on visually and get aroused much more quickly than females. Teasing is now socially acceptable to the extent that a girl can " grind " a guy on a dance floor, rubbing his crotch with her buttocks and not be expected to provide him any relief. Women can walk around at the office in sheer white pants or skirt without panties and the men are afraid to complain lest they be told, " If you can't handle it, don't look. "

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