Why do men stay away from you if you're an independent woman in her 30's and are tall blonde thin and attractive and have an outgoing caring personality?

Answer 1

Hey hi! Men would keep away from such a person cos they feel intimidated by ur achievement.And also men generally do not like opinionted women as their girlfrinds -or spouses.They need women who would worship them,make them feel important,stroke their egos and not women who are completely in charge of their lives.They need emotionally insecure women.But hey,don't u worry,the right guy will come at the right time.Just don't make a haste. I can?t say that I agree with the previous answer. SECURE men are not at all intimidated by an independent woman, even if she is attractive and outgoing. That being said, men do like to feel useful and appreciated. So, do you want a guy with security issues, or do you want to hold out for something better? Examine the venues where you are meeting men. Get a good picture in your mind (be specific) of the type of person you are looking for and use that as your guide. Frequent the places and events where men with those traits are likely to spend time. Remember, dating is a numbers game-you will likely need to date a lot to find someone that you would be happy with long-term (if that is your goal). Don?t get trapped into thinking when you start dating someone that you have to make that one relationship work or your life is over! There are millions of single people out there, but we tend to think in terms of scarcity when it comes to dating. Date a lot! Also, guys are sometimes obtuse about realizing that a woman would like to get together with them. If you know or meet someone you would like to go out with, ask them to meet up with you for coffee, or something else where you won?t invest a lot of time and won?t feel badly if they aren?t what you are looking for. Take it from a fun-loving, secure guy-we love it when a woman will take some initiative and it has made my whole day when a woman has asked me to get together. UM...are you teeth rotted out?...do you bathe?....do you reek?...thats why!!