Why do some husbands think that sex is the only way to love their wife while forgetting that we are a real person who can be loved in different ways?

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ALL HUSBANDS (because they are men of course) feel this way. Men and women just think differently. Men feel by making love and satisfying a woman he is the KING (they seem to be in competition with other men and believe the garbage their friends tell them as to how much is enough when it comes to sex. Smart men don't buy that!), while women sometimes just want to be cuddled, protected, feel secure and told they are loved without being mauled to death. There is not one woman I know that doesn't have this problem and that includes myself. I know my husband loves me without question, but I've had to teach him that when he does that all the time and just doesn't cuddle me it turns me off.

Women are strange creatures in their own rights and sometimes it's difficult for a man to read the "mood signs" of a woman. You must admit, women do change their minds a lot and perhaps we may get frisky and change our minds halfway through it. The poor guy doesn't know what hit him.

I remember when I use to do dishes and my hands were in water, my husband would come up behind me and go for my boobs. It use to enrage me! So, when he was busy I'd rush up and grab his "family jewels" which he didn't like one bit! He got the message loud and clear! LOL

Don't worry about it, but let your husband know that you sometimes just want to be cuddles, to have him talk to you about different subject and actually have an adult conversation.

Good luck Marcy

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