Why do some people hate talking?

Answer 1

Im one of those people who sometimes hate talking, up to the point where I'd do anything just to avoid talking or just simply refuse to utter a word. This has always seemed strange to me, but I figured out that maybe its because I'm a very spiritual person and usually reserved. I therefore sometimes need my space (peace and tranquality). It is difficult to obtain this, if you are constantly talking. You have to be quiet sometimes and allow your inner-self and the world around you to speak to your heart mind and body.

I hope this answers your question and please don't feel hurt when some-one wants to be quiet and alone. Usually its because they need to regain their inner equalibriam, therefore being able to be the best person they can be (towards other people).

Another thing you need to be aware of is that too much talking can be toxic (almost like noise polution) and some people are more sensitive to that, than others.

Answer 2

Actually this part "Guys not good at talking" is in our vains dating back to the rock age.

Few thousand years ago the society depended upon the males for their survival(Food etc.).

So the males were ranked in that early society by their hunting, males spent whole day hunting and in the end it did not mattered whether a male was big or small, cool or punk, it mattered who was the best hunter.

While males were away, the woman chatted, and talked about their day to day problems.

So a trend started back then and carried through centuries and generations.

This is the true reason, why guys are not good at talking.

Believe me, there is no other possible explanation.

and how to counter it

By practice my friend, by practice.

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Answer 3

Maybe they have nothing worth saying. They could be unable to talk due to having a fault in their vocal-cords. They could also be too shy to speak!