Why does my husband save pics from the web I'm 38 5'5 102 yoga every day. I've been told I'm very pretty. i'm supportive of him and love him so much why does he still hav 2 to do that to me.?

They just think it is natural, and men think about sex, on average every ten seconds. Men also are more visually stimulated

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It's instinctual, IMO. It's just a natural human reaction. And, for the record, women look at men, too, no matter what they say to the contrary.

You could compare it to masturbation, ; ) everyone does it, but few people will admit it!

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Because they're pretty, of course.

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Just to add...I don't like my man looking at women and for those who think it is men only that are visual, he he he...you are wrong; women go for the good looking guys because they want their offspring to look good (evolutionary). Studies have shown that when women cheat on their husbands/partners, it is either with someone better looking and of course bigger income. On the days those women cheat, they are more likely to conceive from their lover. Please feel free to research yourself.

However, women do not feel the need to look at other men in the way men do. Judging by myself, it's like I wear a blindfold (like someone says below), when I want to, purely out of respect for my partner. Why can't men do that?

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For the same reason that women look at men, honey. And don't demean yourself by denying that you look. You wouldn't be fooling anyone except maybe yourself.

Men look. Women look. Why not? Even if you are married, looking doesn't hurt unless of course one partner is completely insecure, which is not healthy for him/her or the relationship.

Let him look, but make it clear to him that what's OK for him is OK for you. If he's going to look, you are going to look too. AND that while looking is okay, anything more is NOT.

I'm very happily married. I'm secure and I trust my husband. As long as we are discreet about it (no drooling all over ourselves neither of us minds if the other looks at other people. It's all good. And later we sometimes have some interesting fantasies to share. ;)

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Man look at woman because it is our design. We look at woman similar to how look at the moon or how we look at our children. Its not always sexual.

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Its rude for a man to look at other women when he is with his wife or girlfriend.

Believe me, my husband stopped looking at woman when I started looking at men while we were out. I dressed differently, makeup, hairstyle, and now men are looking at me. Believe me, my husband isn't looking at other women, he is looking and making sure no guy is catching my eye.

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but what when you are not going to be beautiful anymore...and other men will not look your direction?????

i think revenge does not bear fruits...

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Because they find them attractive or interesting.

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If men didn't look at women, the human species would be extinct because there would be no desire to reproduce. Plus how can you not look unless you are wearing a blindfold constantly.




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above poster has it right, men are biologically programed to procreate all the time, society says thats not on so they dont, but they still look, its still in there ,its not been and cant be taken away just because society dosnt like it and his girlfriend feels hurt by it, we are not biologically programmed to be monogamous, that is a choice or society forcing the 'choice' on us, depending which way you want to look at it.

if your boyf stops looking because you force him too that will only cause problems, you need to accept men are like this, and yes he can possible be more discreet, but he wont ever stop looking, he will just hide it from you.

also women really need to accept we drool over men all the time too, brad pitt, although not my taste, is lusted by millions of women, married engaged and single
thousands of girls go to see westlife or backstreet boys, boyfriends in toe, simply because they fancy the pants, literally, off them

thats how women do it, thats how men do it, but we both do it!

IF YOUR HUSBAND STILL SHOWS INTEREST IN YOU AND YOUR SEX LIFE IS OK,LET HIM,BUT WATCH OUT HE DOESNT GET INTERESTED IN LIVE SEX WEB CAMS OR TOO MUCH PORN,OTHERWISE HE WILL BE LIKE MY EX,ONLY INTERESTED IN DREAM FIGURES,NOT REALITY,OR CASUAL SEX ONLY FOR HIS GRATIFICATION,VISUAL AND FAST SEX

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