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It is human nature not to trust any one that has once betrayed you. This is completely understandable. There is a reason not to believe a person if they say they will change however once you are able to forgive them it will be much easier to take them back.

Forgiveness is supposedly the gateway to happiness. So if you forgive him you will be less angry that your spouse cheated. It is right to give people second chances and if love is pure as it is supposed to be he will not cheat again.

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  • It is mature and a great thing you have forgiven your husband for his infidelity, but he broke that bond of trust he vowed to you in your marriage vows and it will take some time for him to gain that trust back from you and it's normal for you to feel that way. Keep those good communication skills going between the two of you and do so without blame or arguing so each of you can discuss your feelings and if there are any problems between you then you both should discuss them and come to some amicable agreement.
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It is hard to trust and believe a spouse after an affair because they have already betrayed the other spouse. It takes time and energy to regain the trust they once had with their significant other.

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Once trust is broken, it is very hard to earn back. Actions speak louder than words so till they prove otherwise... it will always be in the back of ones mind.

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It's because you still think that they'll do the same thing again. It's okay to feel this way after his/her infidelity. Trust is tough to regain back.

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