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Why is it hard to have intimacy with your spouse even though you have forgiven him for cheating on you?
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∙ 13y ago
- Women for the most part are romantics; when they love they are extremely passionate about it and are geared towards complete commitment from the one they love. Most wives are extremely loyal towards their spouse and therefore feel they have nothing to fear until some husbands decide to have an affair and it comes as a great shock to the woman. The wife feels deeply hurt and heartbroken; she may feel stupid for being made a fool of; she is jealous of the other woman and wonders what the other woman had that she did not have; she will cry until eventually she just becomes angry at her spouse for causing her all this pain and will built up a wall (without knowing it) to protect herself from being hurt again because the person she loved broke that bond of trust. If her husband has never cheated before and knows he has made a terrible mistake and the hurt he has inflicted on his wife he should be willing to go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with marriage problems and if he is not willing to take full blame for his affair and acts as if both of you can simply sweep it under the rug then you need to make it clear to him that you are not going to live in a marriage without some help from marriage counseling and if he continues to refuse then file for divorce. The affair is still fresh in your memory; you are still left wondering why he had the affair; you feel he may do it again because he has broken that bond of trust and therefore when you both are trying to get back to your regular sexual relationship you have images of a faceless woman being with your husband doing the same things together plus you are still inwardly hurt and angry at him and few women would not feel very romantic enough to continue a sexual relationship with all that hurt they are bottling up inside of them. Please, get marriage counseling if you both want to save your marriage.
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Should you Contact the cheating spouse mistress?
Probably not, you should let the cheating spouse know that you know he's cheating though! If you want answers, you can contact the mistress to get the truth... although she may just direct you back to your spouse and tell you to talk to him (to avoid confrontation).
How do you rebuild the love and intimacy after your spouse cheated on you?
No. He or she could do it again. Unless you love them so much that you can't stand living without them. I wouldn't though.
Can you get an allergic reaction like breaking out in hives and swollen abody parts from your cheating spouse but the cheating spouse shows no symptoms?
It is possible to show signs of a sexual transmitted disease even though your partner does not. Many STD'S don't show any symptoms at all. It is important to ask your doctor .
How do you punish cheating spouse?
ANSWER: You can't do this even though he hurt you so badly. But if doing this will give you closure, you need to decide how and when you can do it. And here is my advice to you, your spouse doesn't deserved anything, alter all it was your spouse who hurt you, not you to him
Is it mental abuse to suspect a spouse who constantly lies and cheats?
*Unless you have some hard facts the spouse is cheating and lying about it then yes, it can be mental abuse if you are always bringing the matter up and it's affecting your relationship. The only way you will know for sure is to follow your spouse (that's how I caught my first husband cheating) or hire a detective. If you aren't willing to do either then you are going to have to live with it and not keep accusing your spouse of cheating. There are so many relationships that have been destroyed by jealousy or second-guessing. Some men/women have a problem of trust when it comes to their mate even though their mate is not cheating.
How do you make your husband realize you are not cheating?
Both men and women who feel their spouse is cheating on them even though they are not can be caused by either the mistrusting spouse cheating themselves or they have been cheated on in the past or perhaps had a parent that cheated. Spouses who accuse the other of cheating lack self confidence from one of the above mentioned. There is not much you can do to prove to him you are not cheating, but sit down and communicate and let him know that if it continues he will certainly lose you because you do not want to live his way of life with all his mistrust reflecting upon you.
Why are cheating husbands mean?
Not all cheating husbands are mean. There could be a number of reasons why a spouse that is cheating is being mean. I can't accurately answer this because it would call for a lot of speculation on my part. I think the best thing to do is to sit down and speak with the cheating spouse about the bitterness. Now if he's a cheat, than you can't expect full honesty from him. What you can do, though, is speak with him and follow your gut. What ever your perception tells you from the conversation should confirm why he's mean.
Can you sin because im under grace?
gods grace gives you the ability to be forgiven for your sin. you can still sin though you just have the privelage of being forgiven
Is Zayn Malik cheating?
No, he is not cheating! he loves perrie though I wish I was his only love lol
Is a will still valid in Georgia after a new marriage?
Generally, if the will was not changed to make provisions for the new spouse, the new spouse would be given an intestate share of the estate. A will that made provisions for a former spouse would be construed as though the former spouse had predeceased the testator.Generally, if the will was not changed to make provisions for the new spouse, the new spouse would be given an intestate share of the estate. A will that made provisions for a former spouse would be construed as though the former spouse had predeceased the testator.Generally, if the will was not changed to make provisions for the new spouse, the new spouse would be given an intestate share of the estate. A will that made provisions for a former spouse would be construed as though the former spouse had predeceased the testator.Generally, if the will was not changed to make provisions for the new spouse, the new spouse would be given an intestate share of the estate. A will that made provisions for a former spouse would be construed as though the former spouse had predeceased the testator.
Why should the two cheaters get away with it with one spouse while the other is suffering?
The other spouse may not know; may know, but is saying nothing or, they just don't care and may be cheating on their spouse. No one is getting away with anything as cheating is selfish and cruel and not necessary. Instead of cheating on someone it is easy enough to break up whether going steady; engaged or married, but people who cheat never consider anyone but themselves. The winner will be the loyal person even though they are going through heartache because in the future they will their true love. Individuals can go down many paths of life (some painful) in order to find the right person to settle down with.
Can you man trust his wife after she cheated?
No, once a spouse has cheated they have broken that bond of trust even though humans are not perfect and can make one mistake by cheating on their spouse. The spouse that was cheated on will always have that hurt tucked away in the back of their minds and be very wary of their spouse cheating again. However, many times a spouse may cheat; that bond of trust broken, but if it was just a one time issue then the married couple can still have a good strong marriage if they work on their communication skills and are honest with each other regarding their feelings.
