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Why is your husband angry with you all the time but he can be so kind to everyone else?
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∙ 14y ago
For many people stress=anger. Your husband is more than likely dealing with a lot of stress in his life. Stress from work (or lack of work), coming home and wanting to relax but the kids are misbehaving. Maybe you want to go to the store and he doesn't want to go. You want to go to dinner and he doesn't. He feels like going to see a movie, but you are tired from chasing the kids around all day (or a stressful day at work) and want to stay home. All of this is stress. All of those disagreements. They add up. And like many of us, he doesn't know how to deal with that stress. This creates the anger. More than likely he has become depressed, and the only way he can express himself is through anger. I would recommend that you seek intervention. Personally, I would recommend a marriage counselor. However, it can be anyone with no personal interest in the matter. For example: A reverend, a therapist, chaplain...whatever you are most comfortable with.
As for why he is so kind to everyone else. Think for a moment. You are the woman he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with. He loves and trusts you more than anyone. He probably doesn't trust anyone else to know how he really feels. He is comfortable with you and is sending you a silent (or not so silent) plea for help. He is scared that other people will see him as being weak. He chooses to portray himself as being happy and friendly to hide his "weakness".
It is heard that a man needs to feel comfortable around the home may be his weakness and he chooses to run away from it. As we know, the woman tries to make everything comfortablke for the man. So in return, at the endof a long hard working stressed out day, we should all relax at home together and enjoy our company.
The weakness will go away after the man works together with the woman at home since we all know that the main focus of improving a relationship is to destress through meditation, excersize, fun activities, keeping communication open ect...
Enjoy life to the fullest and do not let the anger get into your paths destruction. That is the weakness we all have to overcome.
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