Why sons hate their mothers?

Answer 1

Dad's don't hate their daughters. There might be the odd occurrence though but in general, dads love their daughters. In fact, they love them so much that they tend to overprotect them. Dads are so afraid that their daughters end up with the wrong man or in a wrong situation, that when they try to protect their daughters from it, it tends to make a dad look bad where in fact he is only protecting his daughter.

A daughter never realizes how it scares a dad when she starts going out, getting a boyfriend, starts using make-up and dressing in gorgeous clothes. When the dad starts implementing rules, the daughter thinks its because of hate because she might want to argue and the dad wants to protect his rules for her protection.

Dads should sit back and look at the big picture. When they become overprotective like that, they don't realize the damage they are doing. They start to keep a strict face and manner most of the time. Then the love they have for their daughters seem to be non-existent, but its not. They only want the best for them.

Answer 2

It really varies;

In my own family the rest of them (not me!) hated my brother's wife because of her actions. She cheated on him, got pregnant on him, chased him with a shotgun and just generally made a pain of herself at times. Other reasons are envy, jealousy, feelings that she is not good enough, that he could have done better etc.

What ever the reasons, I came to the conclusion very early on (and they've been together for 24 years now) that my brother chose her and loves her. As such I felt that if I disrespected her, I was actually disrespecting him as well. In other words I'd be telling him that he's not a good man, that he's not able to choose a wife and that the wife he chooses is a reflection of his poor abilities as a husband and a father. I decided very early that this was rude not only to her, but also to my brother.

Any wife who is having problems with their husbands family should remind them of this, and let them know that there actions are a reflection of his ability to make life choices and not just a reflection on her. They may reconsider. My family still dislikes my brother's wife, but they are at least polite to her ever since I explained this to them (15 years ago now).

Answer 3

Sons sometimes hate their mothers on a rational basis. They have an idea of what good and bad is and what fair and unfair is. When a child perceives his mother acting badly or contrary to the mother's own standards of fairness and goodness (not walking the talk) it does violence to his intelligence resulting in expressions of hate. Males tend to be logically inclined and anything contradicting logic will traverse the child's stable thinking patterns of symmetrical justice. Symmetrical justice being when a person talks the talk and then walks the talk as well.
There is a Christian principle about "making straight ones ways." This is not a reference to edging the sidewalk. To do lawn care in the morning and then having an illicit affair with the neighbors husband in the afternoon is not "making straight ones ways" and will bring hatred from all directions regardless of the straightness of the sidewalks and hedges. -- an average guy--